Raptured from Credit Card Debt: Part Jew
@ 4:22 pmOpa George and his financial ethic, born from an Eastern European immigrant Jewish sensibility, live on every time I take note of what I’ve spent: down to the penny. Perhaps because we Jews believe less in the Rapture and more in the Survival, the chosen people have taken the time to get clear on finances.
Now, I recognize that I’m digging up a classic stereotype in writing this, but the fact is unavoidable that without my grandfather’s instructions to my mother to create a financial log to carry with her everywhere she went, I would not so easily have become the collector of data that I am. His legacy is my ability to truly know where I stand financially–even if I’m slipping a bit over the edge, I know by how much!
Of course every culture and religion has some sort of rescue fantasy: claiming the Promised Land, the Rapture, the Barney’s warehouse sale. (Have you ever been in the basement, where the men’s goods are stocked? Try getting inbetween those fellows and their Burberry cashmere sweaters!)
But whether we like it or not, rescues can’t be planned–they have their own logic and sense of timing. In order to handle our finances, we must look explicitly at the numbers we’d rather avoid. A rescue implies a faint, a fall backwards into oblivion: someone or something else is steering the vehicle now. Sounds great to me: until you factor in the bill collector, your hunger.
The Jewish people–of which compose less than half of one percent in the United States–have a great legacy of survival against the odds. That’s our miracle. Money matters, we can all count on.







September 7th, 2006 at 12:20 am
The lotto is my salvation…
Unfortunately I don’t play…
So I wait for the day when my luck strikes and I find the winning ticket on the ground that someone dropped
September 8th, 2006 at 10:55 am
I’m sorry, I would think that of all websites that this one would make a concerted effort to avoid making wide-sweeping, generalized statements (especially ones that buy into the worst of stereotypes). How is there “A” Jewish way of viewing money when there is not “A” way of being Jewish? That being Jewish could entail being from places as varied as Russia, India, Ethiopia, Iraq, China, etc…There is no monolithic way of viewing anything. And you did this website a great disservice by proclaiming to understand such things without an ounce of historical, textual or cultural evidence.
September 8th, 2006 at 5:10 pm
I agree that there is no monolithic way of viewing anything. My short entry is about _my_ Jewish experience, and thus is filed under “opinion” and is as such, rather than an in-depth and academic analysis.
September 9th, 2006 at 1:24 pm
Awesome that Grandpa taught these things, but it’s a shame you fed outside stereotypes, thus making Grandpa a stereotype, too, in writing this. To me, you really did ol’ Grandpa a disservice by making this a Jewish issue. Aren’t we stereotyped enough about money? Why not just write about what Grandpa taught without making it a Jewish thing? I don’t know, it just seems like you’re reinforcing old stereotypes us Askenazim have been fighting for too long as it is.
Just because you “recognize” pointing to old stereotypes doesn’t let you off the hook for perpetuating them.
“Adam”– you make some excellent points, too.
September 9th, 2006 at 1:27 pm
I expect more from QueerCents– a website focused for a group that is already historically marginalized enough– than to allow self-hating, anti-semitism, sweeping generalizations, etc. to enter into the dailogue and marginalize and divide even further.
Aren’t we supposed to protect each other?