Queercents

Whenever the weather turns as hot and sticky as it did this past week in NYC, I can’t help but think about how my cats are faring in the heat while I’m at work. So when I get home, I often subject them to my own ideas about cooling down cats in the heat: giving them ice cubes to play with, sprinkling them with cold water, and refrigerating their wet food. I’m sure none of these are particularly effective, because, like my partner Grace reminded me, cats are not people!

However misinformed my actions are, they are not misguided: we all like to be able to do something special for the animal members of our family once in a while. For this week’s Reducing Pet Costs post we move on to a much happier topic: the little extras we indulge in for our pets. From spa treatments to clothes, here is a list of ideas for pampering your pets at a fraction of the cost of traditional luxuries. You might even save enough to get yourself a pedicure! Read the rest of this entry »

A sad topic for this week, but a necessary one: sick pets. While we don’t like to ever think of our little friends not in perfect health, the reality is that more often than not, we outlive them. This means we’re usually in charge of important end of life care issues, as well as making sure we give them a loving and memorable goodbye. During these stressful times, our emotions often overwhelm us- honestly, I’ve been having a hard time even writing this post because it is so sad to think about- and often, it is at those times that we’re most unaware of our finances. Stories of people getting into serious debt due to medical expenses are common, and naturally, we find ourselves unwilling to think about financial implications when it comes to saving the life of any loved one. While I’m not advocating being cold-hearted in order to be money smart; through careful planning, it is possible to be both financially prudent and emotionally indulgent. Read the rest of this entry »

When I came across this group of articles, I was really excited to be able to talk about my two favorite topics: food and money. It’s a couple weeks old, but Slate posted a very interesting article on the disjunction between rising food costs and the fiscally unrestrained foodie industry. Class discussions about fresh, organic food vs. processed food are commonplace now, but still foodie-centric blogs make a bigger deal about seasonal ingredients and fancy meals than cheaper alternatives. Why?

Similarly, but maybe more importantly, why are we so unwilling to enjoy our food while thinking about costs at the same time? Even personal finance bloggers, like our dear Nina, when asked, admit to splurging on food expenses more than anything else. Is it possible to enjoy your food and be frugal about it? Especially with organic food costs rising to astronomic highs! Read the rest of this entry »

Although I live in Brooklyn, my family is in California. My partner Grace’s family is from Virginia. So between family visits, week-long vacations, and weekend getaways, we can be gone quite a bit. This leaves our cats, Francie and Hammy, up to their own devices, which, in all honestly, probably consist of sleeping, sleeping some more and trying to see how much hair they can get to accumulate on the rug. However our absence affects them, they seem to be a little sad whenever our departure is imminent- sleeping in our suitcases, sleeping this close to our faces, and (okay, maybe I’m projecting) giving us sad, feel-sorry-for-me faces.

I never expected my dad’s rejoinder to all my childhood pet requests to come back to me so strongly; he’d always say I’d never want to go on all my beloved vacations once I got a pet. While this is partly true- I do feel a pang of guilt and regret for leaving- having a pet to come home to is also the perfect antidote to post-vacation blues. Now that vacation season is upon us, here are some tips and considerations for making sure your pets have as nice of a time as you do when you’re gone. Read the rest of this entry »

I might as well come out and admit it: I LOVE shopping. Like the stereotypical femme, my ideal afternoon comprises of shopping, shopping and shopping, with maybe a spa treatment thrown in. When it comes to my cats, I’m no different. My partner has to tear me away from the cat toys and steer me out of the store when I start to get that glazed shopping look in my eyes. Shoppers, you know what look I’m talking about; I think we call it “the Zone.” How do I reconcile my love of shopping with my desire to stay on a budget? Simple: crafts!

For me, shopping is the hunt of finding something new; something unique and something perfect. Crafting is the art of making those things. With a little extra time and effort, I can feel so much better about my materialistic desires. This applies very nicely to pet toys and accessories, since most pet toys are easy and inexpensive to make. Now if I can just find the receipt to return that remote controlled mouse! Read the rest of this entry »

While pet food is the most often recurring cost associated with pets, pet medical care may well be the most expensive. When me and my partner rescued Francie from the rooftop, we immediately took her to the vet to make sure she was healthy. Although we got a 10% discount for taking in a rescue, that initial visit cost a whopping $80. Since, Francie’s been spayed, ($200) the kittens had their shots ($80 each for five of them), and a sick kitten was nursed back to health with the help of the vet ($80).

All in all, it’s been an expensive winter. Obviously, it is not typical to incur all of these costs in such a short period of time, but the average yearly medical cost for pets is still upwards of $300. Here’s a breakdown of different options for making sure your pet still gets the care it needs despite high costs and difficult financial times. After all, we don’t want to be these people. (Don’t click on that link if stories about abandoned animals upsets you, I was really saddened) Read the rest of this entry »

It’s all over the news right now; Ben Bernanke, chairman of the Federal Reserve, just spoke at a news conference on the release of a survey by the Jump$tart Coalition about financial literacy in high school students. As the AP reports, he said:

In light of the problems that have arisen in the subprime mortgage market, we are reminded of how critically important it is for individuals to become financially literate at an early age so that they are better prepared to make decisions and navigate an increasingly complex financial marketplace.

Yes. Yes. YES! Financial literacy for all ages is critical and wholly necessary. But did we need this financial crisis to remind us? And did we need the abysmal results of the survey to worry us? Apparently, high school seniors scored lower on this survey than they had in the previous six surveys, only answering 48 percent of questions on personal finance and economics correctly. College seniors scored a little better, answering 62 of the questions correctly. But, it is still not enough. Read the rest of this entry »

I just got my very first pet four months ago; a pregnant tabby me and my partner, Grace, rescued from the roof adjacent to our apartment. Soon after, she had kittens and we ended up keeping one- his picture is to the right. Having never had a pet as a child (my parents are very, very neat people), I knew this would be a huge emotional investment for me, but what I didn’t realize is how much of a financial investment it would be as well.

Pets, in addition to being invaluable emotional support, proven stress reduction and overall adorableness, cost money. And if you believe the media portrayals, we as queer people are particularly lavish with our pets, treating them to fancy hotel stays (Best in Show) and acupuncture (Flipping Out). Like Paula said “Pets are our furry children”. Of course, having a pet doesn’t have to break the bank, so let’s talk about some ways to save money while still being the best pet owners we can be. And if you’re still in the process of considering the financial implications of owning a pet, please read Nina’s post “Are Pets Worth the Price?” I’ve already said yes to that question and so in the next couple weeks I’ll be posting a series of topics on saving money on pet expenses, starting with food. Read the rest of this entry »