Yes, my darling new graduate, it’s actually going to suck as much as you think it will.

Oh, I’m just kidding! Well, no, I’m not. The unique terror of student debt is borrowing against your future – an income and budget you’re probably just establishing – and trying to figure out how that will fit.

But your grace period is going to end whether you want it to or not – I’m reminded of this as I have a whole new batch of ’08 friends facing down repayment in November and December. (Um, happy holidays?) And my intuition – I have no stats, just personal experience – is that more people are facing down the staggering levels of debt you used to associate with law or med school, just for the bachelor’s or master’s degrees. And that the insecure market isn’t catching them like it was.

Exit counseling and loan education focus on consolidation, deferment and forbearance, options everyone with student debt should understand. On top of that, here is some advice from the trenches, for those about to enter repayment….

  • Start now! With a few more months till repayment, don’t get used to living on your full paycheck. Put the amount of your minimum payment in a savings account, or use it to pay down other debt. (Or just start on your loans now.)
  • Take care of other committed payments. Shares of rent, utilities, memberships and subscriptions might be more under your control right now than debt you incurred two years ago.
  • The more punishing your minimums, the more important and more painful prepayments are. Which is awesome and not cruel of the universe at all. It’s counterintuitive and frankly kind of miserable to throw additional money on a huge minimum payment, but you’ll be happy to get that minimum down. I gambled more than I realized when I chose to make large regular prepayments at the expense of much of my savings – I ended up having to scrape through more of my savings than I anticipated. (Of course.) However, the risk paid off, and even with regular prepayments, it’s both financially and psychologically worthwhile to fight your debt head-on.
  • Keep the faith. Okay, I was just kidding – it’s not so bad. It’s only money, anyway.