“The disparity between a restaurant’s price and food quality rises in direct proportion to the size of the pepper mill.” — Bryan Miller

I keep a standing dinner date at Houston’s restaurant with one of my favorite friends. Last night as the server was trying to upsell us on everything from bottled water to appetizers and side salads, it reminded him of the last time he visited Houston’s with his wife.

Their server asked if they wanted an appetizer and when they said, “Sure, what do you recommend?” The savvy server said, “We have these fabulous crab cakes that are an entree but many people split as an appetizer.” How can you pass up fabulous? So they said yes. My friend didn’t inquire further but noted that the crab cakes were listed as “Market Price” on the menu.

The crab cakes lived up to the recommendation but when the bill came, they were $38 and happened to be the second-most expensive thing on the menu. I’m sure Houston’s is Zagat-rated but it’s not exactly considered fine dining in my opinion. One restaurant guide states, “Expect the average entree to cost from $12 to $20, and it would be fine to go dressed casual.”

I always get the fish sandwich (hold the bun) and it’s $16. Add in a glass of wine at $9 and with tip and tax I’m usually out the door for just over $30. This would be my expectation as in “expect the average entree to cost from $12 to $20” when dining at Houston’s.

What would you have done in the same situation? My friend laughed about it with his wife and paid the bill. I would have at least addressed the server’s upsell methods with the server herself or more likely, called over the manager for a side conversation about a price reduction. At times, I have a low tolerance for service personnel. And I’m not acting out as an elitist. I’ve spent many years as a service worker and I would consider this tactic to be a shady server practice.

Do you think that a server should disclose the price (without customer prompting) when he/she pushes a high priced item like the crab cakes? Or do you think it is up to the patron to ask before making the choice? Many people feel uncomfortable asking about the price. I typically will ask especially when it’s a Wine by the Glass recommendation. In the same crab cake situation, what would you have done?